DESIGNING THE LIFE YOU WERE CREATED TO LIVE

Have you ever felt like you’re just going through the motions—living without clear direction or purpose? You’re not alone. Many people settle for less than they were meant for simply because they lack a compelling vision. Let’s consider why vision is not just important but essential in one’s life journey.
WHAT IS VISION?
Vision is more than just wishful thinking. It’s the ability to see beyond your current circumstances and imagine a future that aligns with your true purpose. It gives you direction when you’re unsure, motivation when you’re tired, and clarity when faced with difficult decisions. Without vision, people drift through life, settle for mediocrity, and often look back with regret.
THE QUALITIES OF A STRONG VISION
A powerful vision is:
1. Clear – It paints a vivid picture of your desired future.
2. Inspiring – It excites and energizes you.
3. Purpose-driven – It connects deeply with your passions and values.
4. Challenging – It pushes you beyond your comfort zone.
5. Actionable – It can be broken down into steps you can take today.
HOW TO DISCOVER YOUR VISION
Finding your vision isn’t a one-time event—it’s a journey. Here are some steps to help you start:
- Seek divine guidance – Ask for wisdom and clarity in understanding your purpose.
- Reflect on your passions – What excites and fulfills you?
- Visualize your ideal future – What does a meaningful life look like to you?
- Write it down – Make it tangible. Dreams become goals when written
- Create a roadmap – Break your vision into achievable, actionable steps.

LIVING WITH VISION
Once you’ve defined your vision, don’t just tuck it away in a journal. Live it—every single day. Review it regularly. Make decisions that align with it. Surround yourself with people who support and inspire your vision. Take bold steps, even when the path seems uncertain. And above all, stay persistent when challenges come your way.
REAL-LIFE EXAMPLES
Consider Joseph from the Bible, who held onto his vision despite betrayal and imprisonment. Think of Thomas Edison, who failed countless times but never gave up on his vision of the lightbulb. Or Nelson Mandela, who endured decades of imprisonment, yet never let go of his vision for a free and united South Africa.
IT’S YOUR TURN
The life you’re meant to live starts with a vision. Don’t wait for the “perfect” moment—define your vision now. Commit to it. Chase it. Live it. Because your vision isn’t just a dream—it’s the blueprint for the life you were created to live. Are you ready to unlock your full potential and start living life by design? Dive deeper into the power of vision and purpose in my book, Living Life by Design —a transformative guide to help you discover your purpose, craft your vision, and take practical steps toward the life you were born to live. Begin your journey to a life of clarity, passion, and impact.
– Dotun Arifalo
18 Comments
Elo Osagie
I love this content and what a beautiful webpage. These are nuggets for daily living. I always look forward to hearing and reading from you! Thank you RD for inspiring and empowering women everywhere. I am blessed to be a beneficiary of your amazing ministry. More grace mama♥️
dotunarifalo
This really warms my heart, Elo🥹💗 Thank you for your kind words. God bless you
Dupe Akindude
A clear vision is a driving force that pushes through all hurdles. This is great RD. Love you 🥰🥰🥰
dotunarifalo
Thank you, Modupeoluwa🤗 I love you more!💗
Adedoyin Victoria
Hmmm, the life of my dream is not only possible but it’s entirely up to me to create, so stop wishing, start deciding & follow through with actionable steps girl💪💪💪
Yess, you can do much more than you
dotunarifalo
That’s right, girl!!💫 That’s the spirit 🔥
Darscell
AMEN THANKS RD GREAT ADVICE 💃💃🥳!
dotunarifalo
You’re welcome, my lovely Darscell💗🤗
Margaret Ukah
Thank you so much RD!
Gotten the book and so excited to have a great read!🤎
dotunarifalo
Yayyy!!💃 Well done, my Pst Margaret💪 I loo forward to your reviews.
Emmanuel
We’re truly the architect of our future.
Thank you so much Ma for sharing.
dotunarifalo
That’s right, Coord Emmanuel💪 You’re always welcome💗
Bless6
This is real knowledge here
dotunarifalo
Thank you, Blessing🤗
David Richard
Thank for the insight & wisdom! This blessed me.
dotunarifalo
I’m glad it did, my Pastor David💗
Agbeniyi Kehinde Inioluwa
Thank you so much RD for this amazing book 😊
dotunarifalo
You’re welcome, my Coord Inioluwa 💗